The Blogs

A little bit more on the should vs. could topic from a couple of weeks ago. I mentioned that “should” doesn’t need to be in our self talk anywhere near the frequency it probably is… because “should” just leads us to beat [...]

Should sucks. It’s a unicorn killer, right? Of all the things that we should do, removing “should’ from our brain is probably top of the list. Not much good comes from the word “should”. Really, truly. When you beat yourself, [...]

Why is my tag line progress not perfection? So many reasons. By now, if you’ve read any of my stuff, you know that I believe that there is no one size fits all.  I also think that there is no one size fits you – or me. Which means we get to [...]

This is a follow on thought to “you’ll know it when you see it” from last week. It’s about timing. I’m a pretty organized and disciplined person. Not in everything, but more so than not. I’m perfectly capable of making [...]

You tell yourself that you trust your intuition, and that you’ll know it when you see it. You’re right, of course. But sometimes, you get that little doubt. Maybe it isn’t your intuition, maybe it’s just what you want to think. [...]

The BS Files are kinda like the X-files – full of myths and urban legends and mysterious things. I feel that it is my duty to tackle them (occasionally). Because, you know, the truth is out there. Case #9. Good enough is the enemy of great! [...]

I’m writing this during tax season, which could also be called procrastination panic season. I usually do my taxes in February, but this year I had to wait for some info, and it was complicated and I stalled and stuff came up…and I had a whole story [...]

It is spring – so time for spring fever. I wanna play. Inner restlessness – inside I feel like I did when I was a kid and we got to play endless games outside because the weather was finally warm enough to stay outside until it was dark. I can [...]

So for this week, more on brain busting, and a lesson from choral singing. Last week I talked about cognitive dissonance, that thing where conflicting thoughts and beliefs makes your head explode. I said that if your brain gets to go around unsupervised, [...]