I do not know why I keep having to learn this lesson. You’d think it would stick by now. Which lesson? Um…well, I know the pattern. Maybe I can’t articulate the lesson clearly yet. Here’s…
The Blogs
a simple trick for creating more (your emotion here)
What’s an emotion that you’d like to feel more of? You can pick any emotion. It will go in the ____, where I say, “your emotion here”. I have a really simple trick to share…
The big list of things for leaders to stop saying
You’ve probably come across posts on words and phrases that women should take out of their vocabulary because they’re things that most men just wouldn’t say. I’m expanding that concept in this post to include…
when to ask why?
“Know your why.” We all know that why? is one of the most important questions to ask and answer. It’s one of the first questions we ask as our curiosity evolves. We ask it endlessly…
BS File #19: I can’t help it if I just feel that way.
The BS Files are kinda like the X-files – full of myths and urban legends and mysterious things. I feel that it is my duty to tackle them (occasionally). Because, you know, the truth is…
how kindness is really self-care
I’ve talked before about how kindness can be a leadership attribute, and how it can be a spiritual practice, and even how it is spreads out through the ripple effect – maybe the butterfly effect?…
Why my next job is gonna be turning on the lights
There are stereotypes for us as we age. There’s the old guy with his pants up to his armpits who’s shouting “get off my lawn.” Okay he spends hours on his lawn. There’s the grouchy…
the 1 thing a leader needs to develop
Last week, I had the privilege of leading a seminar for a company (I love) that was having an online version of their annual retreat. My topic was on coaching (of course) and how to…
projection or intuition?
I got an email this morning from someone – I’m on his mailing list – and he said, “if you follow me at all, you’ll know….” My head tilted to the side a bit, just…
am I sweating the small stuff?
Are you sweating the small stuff? I’m trying to remember where I heard this question last week and it’s driving me nuts. I keep going over my schedule…who was I with? What did I read?…
